We hold onto so many toxic ideas about what it means to be abundant, wealthy and have a lot of money to do whatever we want with them – and instead of letting them go, instead of allowing ourselves to be happy and enjoy the many blessings that abundance brings – we cling on to them.
Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change.
15 Things You Should Give up to Be Abundant
1. Give up your scarcity mentality
This world has enough for everyone, but you have to believe this to be true. Change your mindset, change your life. Give up your scarcity mentality and you will be abundant.
Give up this need to see yourself as small, unworthy and insignificant. You are a living, breathing miracle. You came out of nothingness and into this world. And you deserve to enjoy all the amazing gifts that life has to offer just as everyone else does. Give up your lack of self-worth and allow yourself to be abundant.
Give up the need to blame your parents, spouse, government, God and the whole world for your dysfunctional relationship with money. You are not a victim, so stop acting like one. Take responsibility for your own life and stop giving your power away.
4. Give up your resistance towards abundance
There is nothing wrong with being abundant. Nothing wrong with allowing life to shower you with its many gifts and blessings. So stop resisting and start embracing.
It really doesn’t matter where you’ve been in the past and how little, you, your family, or your ancestors had many, maaaany years ago. That’s just a memory, not your reality. And you should treat it as such. Times have changed, and so should you.
About you not being worthy and deserving of wealth and abundance and about money being the root of all evil. Evil comes from what people do with money, and not from money itself. Always remember that.
Stop trying to move forward with your breaks on. Lift your foot off the self-sabotage and place it on the abundance pedal instead.
8. Give up the toxic beliefs that life has to be a struggle
Life isn’t meant to be a struggle, but you make it so by believing that it should be. Give up this toxic belief and you’ll see things changing for the better.
9. Give up the insane belief that abundance and spirituality don’t go together
Saying that spirituality and abundance don’t go together is like saying that exhaling and inhaling don’t go together. You can’t have one without the other. In fact, you need to inhale first in order to exhale. The same with abundance. You need to allow yourself to receive it in order for you to give.
It was the famous scientist Nikola Tesla who advised us to think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration in order to find the secrets of the Universe. And by clearing your vibrational clutter you will discover, not just the secrets of the Universe, but also that your true nature is abundant.
Whether it’s your family, friends, country or the whole world, you need to stop trying so hard to be “one of them.” Your loyalty to other people’s pain, suffering and lack of abundance won’t make the world a better place.
If you really want to help “your people”, help them by rising above yourself and your circumstances. Shine your light on them so that they can see their way out of the darkness. Help them by shining, not by hiding.
12. Give up your love-hate relationship with money
Stop giving money so much power over you. Money is not your master and you are not their slave. You are the master and they are the servant. The end!
Whether this resentment is directed at yourself, your past, your country, the people around you – or simply at money and the idea of abundance, let it all go. Give up all that venom that has been poisoning you and your life and allow yourself to be free. Forgive, release and let go. Give up and be happy.
For having more than others, or less than you should. For wanting to buy the things you love and for doing the things you want to do.
Give it all up. Free your heart from all those money guilt and shame messages and make room in your heart for love. Always remember that love liberates and shame enslaves.
15. Give up the chase for money
Abundance is not something you chase after. Abundance is something you tune into. Your natural state is abundance. Give up the chase. Relax into your being. And allow abundance to come to you.