We hold onto so many toxic ideas about what it means to be abundant, wealthy and prosperous. And instead of letting them go, instead of allowing ourselves to be happy and prosperous, we cling on to them.
Well, not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve. Starting today we will allow ourselves to experience what it feels like to be abundant, happy, healthy, loved, and free.
15 Things You Should Give up to Be Abundant
1. Give up your scarcity mentality to be abundant
This world has enough wealth, prosperity, and abundance for everyone. But you have to believe this to be true. Change your mindset, change your life. Give up your scarcity mentality and you will be abundant.
2. Give up your lack of self-worth to be abundant
Give up this need to see yourself as a small, unworthy and insignificant human being.
You are a living, breathing miracle.
You came out of nothingness and into this world to shine your light and to allow the Divine to be made manifest through all that you are and do.
There is absolutely nothing about you lacking!
Give up the need to blame your parents, spouse, government, God and the whole world for your unhealthy relationship with money, wealth, and abundance.
You are not a victim. You never were and never will be.
You are a powerful creator. And the time has come for you to take responsibility for your own life and start creating a healthy relationship with wealth and abundance.
4. Give up your resistance to be abundant
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be abundant. Nothing wrong with allowing life to shower you with its many gifts and blessings.
In fact, your nature is abundant, wealthy, and prosperous. This is the truth of who you are!
And whenever you focus on scarcity, lack, and poverty of any kind – whether it’s in love and relationships, health, time, peace, comfort, joy, positivity, money, success, etc. – you disrupt the natural flow of life and you cease to be in alignment with yourself and the whole universe. So give up your resistance and start embracing the many joys and blessings life wants to send your way…
5. Give up old programming to be abundant
It really doesn’t matter where you’ve been in the past and how little, you, your family, or your ancestors have had in the past. That’s just a memory and not your reality. So why not treat it as such and allow yourself to be abundant?
About you not being worthy and deserving of wealth and abundance. And about money being the root of all evil… Evil comes from what people do with money and not from money itself.
7. Give up self-sabotage to be abundant
You will never be able to move forward with your breaks on. Lift your foot off the self-sabotage pedal and place it on the abundance pedal instead.
8. Give up the toxic beliefs that life has to be a struggle
Life isn’t meant to be a struggle. But it becomes a struggle for all those who believe it to be so. Give up this toxic belief and you’ll see things changing for the better.
9. Give up the insane belief that abundance and spirituality don’t go together
Saying that spirituality and abundance don’t go together is like saying that exhaling and inhaling don’t go together. You can’t have one without the other. In fact, you need to inhale first in order to exhale. The same with abundance.
10. Give up vibrational clutter to be abundant
It was the famous scientist Nikola Tesla who advised us to think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration in order to find the secrets of the Universe. And by clearing your vibrational clutter you will discover, not just the secrets of the Universe, but also that your true nature is to be abundant.
Whether it’s your family, friends, country or the whole world, you need to stop trying so hard to be “one of them.” Your loyalty and devotement to other people’s pains, suffering and lack of abundance won’t make the world a better place.
If you really want to help people, help them by moving beyond yourself. Help them by moving beyond the limitations of your past and current circumstances.
Help them by shining your light and by helping them see their way out into a healthier, more loving, joyful, and affluent life.
12. Give up your love-hate relationship with money to be abundant
Stop giving money so much power over you. Money is neither bad, dark, or evil. Money is just energy. A tool you use to create a better life for yourself and those you love. And contrary to what you were led to believe, you are not the slave of money. You are the master of your money and money is your servant. That’s all there is to it.
Whether this resentment is directed at yourself, the past, your country, or the people who taught you that money, wealth, and abundance are horrible things, it’s imperative you let it all go.
You cannot talk about lack and poverty and expect to experience wealth.
You cannot focus on fear, blame, betrayal, guilt, shame, and resentment, and expect to enjoy compassionate, loving, and meaningful relationships.
You cannot talk all day about ill health, germs, and disease and still expect to enjoy radiant health and wellbeing.
As it is so beautifully written in James 1:8: ”A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.”
You either focus on lack and embrace it fully. Or you focus on abundance and that’s exactly what you will experience.
To choose one is to let the other go…
14. Give up guilt and shame to be abundant
For having more than others, or less than you should. For wanting to buy the things you want to buy. And for living your life the way you do.
Give it all up.
Free your heart from all those money guilt and shame messages about success, wealth, and prosperity and make room in your heart for love and compassion. Always remember that self-love liberates and blame, guilt, fear, and shame always enslave.
15. Give up the chase
Abundance is not something you chase after. Abundance is something you tune into.
Your natural state is abundant.
Give up the chase. Relax into your being. And allow abundance to come to you. Because it will.
And these are the 15 things you should give up to be abundant. What about you? What is the number one thing holding you back from welcoming abundance into your life?