Do you know where you are headed or are you just going with the wind, without a sense of purpose, without a sense of direction?
Focused on a specific goal you will feel more in control of your life and all that will come your way. You will feel more fulfilled and you will act toward achieving your goals with less fear. This is something we are all capable of doing, it is a power that we all posses. Once you know what you want and why you want it, once you know where you are heading, your whole life will change, and you will go from being a victim of the environment to shaping the environment, in order to better suit your own needs.
Having a goal, a dream, a vision of the future etc. , you will get to feel more relaxed, and more at peace with yourself and those around you, and you will no longer feel the need to complain and play the victim game. By doing this, you will start attracting more people and more situation that will help you move closer and closer to your goals.
Put all your thoughts on a peace of paper, start by asking questions, start by asking yourself: “What is it that I want from life? What is it that life wants from me? Why am I here? What are my unique talents and how can I use them? How can I be of service to myself and to those around me? What makes me happy? What makes me feel at peace, whole and complete?” and be patient. Remember that the future comes one day at a time.
There’s no need to stress yourself by trying to get all things done as fast as possible, because the moment you do that, the moment you try to control everything in order to get to the finish line as fast as possible, you will get unsatisfying results. Trying to speed up everything will only make you feel more stressed, and even more confused than you already are.
“Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.” William James
Know that you are worthy, believe that you are here for a purpose and act on this idea. Think about this every single day, and if it’s not clear to you what is it that you really want, why are you here, make this your main goal. Make it your goal to find what your main purpose in life is, and don’t stop until you find it, and trust me, you will eventually find it. Only by doing that which you love, only by living your life on purpose you will give meaning to your life. Only by doing that which you love you will really be happy.