10 Ways to Give Yourself Credit Starting Today

Give Yourself Credit

“It’s not what you are that holds you back, it’s what you think you are not” ~ Unknown

One of my own biggest struggles has been to truly acknowledge myself and all that I do. I have spent years retraining my thoughts and practicing self-love so that I remember how wonderful I am. As a result, my experience with self-worth, beauty, and peace has dramatically increased.

I know from my own experience that this isn’t a simple transition to make. We have all spent years beating ourselves up for mistakes, comparing our lives to others and reaching for more in the hopes that we’ll find happiness and love.

Other times we consistently look outside for praise. We want others to remind us or notice how fabulous we are.

The truth is, it doesn’t matter how much others notice or give you praise unless you feel it within yourself first. I am not saying it doesn’t feel amazing to receive recognition because it does! Though, the only way to embody it and receive those compliments is to know and love yourself. If not, you likely not to even notice the recognition you receive from others.

Give Yourself Credit

The problem that I most often hear from my clients is that they don’t give themselves credit for what they are doing or what they have done in their lives. If they lost 10 pounds, they see that as “just” 10 pounds or if they take care of the house and their family, that doesn’t count since its expected. I hear a constant minimizing of accomplishments and worth.

Do you give yourself credit for being you? Do you remember how amazing you are and how far you’ve come?

Here are few practices and beliefs to give yourself credit:

10 Ways to Give Yourself Credit Starting Today and Enjoy Life

1. Be enough for you.

I have no idea where we all got the notion that we need more to be worthy. Yet millions of people (myself included) struggle with proving and feeling good enough. I spent time reflecting on my own fears and realized that I am enough for me. We don’t need to be enough – we need to embrace ourselves and give ourselves unconditional love.

2. Give yourself credit by celebrating yourself.

When was the last time you did something and then celebrated yourself; not on your birthday, anniversary or vacation but during regular day to day life?

Celebrating can look like many things; the main point is not how you celebrate but that you honor yourself for something you did. Basically, you are showing up for yourself by saying “yes, I did something and I deserve to feel good about it.”

10 Ways to Give Yourself Credit Starting Today and Enjoy Life

3. Create your own definition of success, beauty, and happiness.

What is the standard that you are constantly driving towards in life? This life is about you and you get to choose what you’re aiming for. Sit down for 5 minutes and write your own definitions.

4. Give yourself credit by marching to the beat of your own drum.

Once you create our own unique definitions, you can begin practicing and letting yourself lead the way.

5. Know you are human.

Being human means you are a part of this life experience and there are certain challenges, fears and emotions you must experience. Rather than trying to avoid it, start to accept it. Certain feelings are along for the ride – the entire ride. 

6. Give yourself credit by becoming your own BFF.

We’ve heard this a million times and it is still true. Treat and speak to yourself the way you would to your bestie. Begin to know and love yourself so much that when all the negative self-talk arises you are aware of it and shut it down!

7. Give yourself credit by allowing yourself play and pleasure.

Do you ever feel like you are waiting for your next vacation to relax? Why do we need to wait till summer to have fun?

Having fun is a part of living in the now and before you ask, YES, you deserve it. Think of one thing that brings you joy and do it!

10 Ways to Give Yourself Credit Starting Today and Enjoy Life

8. Practice Being vs. Doing.

The past few months I realized that I had so many attachments to “doing.” I constantly wanted to do because then I could prove to myself that I am worthy and deserving. So instead, I have been sitting with the discomfort of simply being. I have nothing to prove and my mere existence and presence are enough.

9. Give Yourself credit by reminding yourself daily who you are.

This may sound silly but remembering who you are deep down can be tough. We get wrapped up in our head and in comparison, that we honestly forget how magnificent we are. Take a moment to write down who you are deep down – not what you do, where you live or any titles. Begin with I AM…

10. Know your “why.”

When I first became a life coach, I worked on this question a lot. Why do I want to do what I do for myself and for others? It is a simple question that can be hard to answer and easy to forget. Add this to the above questions and consider what’s lying beneath the outer layers of your life. I doubt that your “why” has anything to do with being perfect or not deserving more. More than likely it has to do with love, connection, and acceptance.

I hope this guides you in beginning to cut yourself some slack and give yourself credit because you deserve it. Without even knowing you, I can imagine how much effort, love and tears have gone into your life experience and I thank you for being you. 

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Orly Levy

Orly Levy is a Transformational Coach specializing in healing and managing stress. She uses a whole person approach by shining light on physical, spiritual and mental healing. She guides others to connect with their internal wisdom and discover peace. Through her experience of overcoming anxiety and depression, Orly has learned that by shining light on our challenges we have the power to transform them. Her practice includes hormonal health support. If you are interested in connecting or receiving a Discovery Session visit her virtual home at OrlysLight.com Stay connected with Orly on Instagram.

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