Your Life Is What You Make It

“If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise.” ~ Robert Fritz

Your life is what you make it. Your present life is the result of all the choices you have made up until this moment. You are the only one responsible for where you are right now, for how your life looks, for how you are being treated by those around you and for the level of happiness or unhappiness present in your life. You and only you. If you want to change the quality of your life, if you want to change the quality of the relationships you have, you have to start by taking responsibility for everything. Yes, everything!

If you keep on doing the same things over and over again, you will get the same results, over and over again. Your life will change the moment you decide it is time to change, it’s that simple. It all starts with a thought, an idea and based on that the actions you will take will lead you in a different and new direction. Will lead you in the right direction.

Always remember that “I AM wealthy, poor, healthy, sick, free, confined were first of all impressions or conditions felt before they became visible expressions. Your world is your consciousness objectified. Waste no time trying to change the outside; change the within or the impression, and the without or expression will take care of itself. When the truth of this statement dawns upon you, you will know that you have found the lost word or the key to every door. I AM (your consciousness) is the magically lost word which was made flesh in the likeness of that which you are conscious of being.” ~ Neville Goddard, Your Faith is Your Fortune

Even though it may seem hard at first, in time things will get better and better. Whenever you feel out of sync, burned out and powerless, whenever you feel like there is nothing left for you to do, repeat these words to yourself and put as much feeling into them as possible:

I choose to be patient for I know life is a journey, not a destination.

I choose to forgive myself for all the mistakes I may have made in the past and to advance confidently in the direction of my dreams.

I choose to live a powerful and inspiring life.

I choose to express my gratitude and appreciation daily.

I choose to be happy, joyful and kind.

I choose to be an inspiration for all.

I choose to live a balanced life, for I know that balance is the key to a happy and successful life.

I choose to be content.

I choose to get up every time I go down and start all over again because I know that I CAN DO IT.

I choose to be opened in mind and spirit to what the world has to offer and embrace it all as it comes.

I choose to accept all the gifts life has to offer me.

I choose to allow events take their course without me trying to control everything.

I choose to be kind towards those people who like me and also those people who don’t.

I choose to always step out of my comfort zone, to stretch, to grow and to evolve.

I choose to take care of my health every single day for as long as I live.

I choose to help others grow and develop, knowing that, by doing so, I will grow with them.

I choose to always be true to myself.

I choose to always look at the bright side of life.

I choose to believe that everything I need, the universe will supply.

I choose to release all of my fears and doubts, knowing that they are all self-created, keeping me away from achieving great things.

I choose to grow and develop into a wonderful, beautiful and powerful human being.

I choose to listen to my heart and intuition, knowing that they will always guide me in the right direction.

I choose to step into the unknown, knowing that in the unknown lies my freedom, my opportunity for growth.

I choose to let go of the past, be confident about the future, and to always be present in the now.

I chose to share my unique gifts and talents with the world.

I choose to always do what I love, and love what I do.

I chose to be loving towards myself and the world around me.

I choose to believe in myself, knowing that I have incredible potential and I can accomplish anything I set my mind to.

I choose to be free of the good intentions of others and to always live my life the way I feel is right for me.

I choose to have faith, knowing that things will always turn out for the best.

~love, Luminita💫

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Luminita D. Saviuc

Luminita, the Founder of PurposeFairy, is an enthusiastic student of the arts, psychology, and spirituality. Her acclaimed blog post, 15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy , was shared by over 1.3 million people on Facebook. Later on, it became the heart of her book, 15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy., book that was published by Penguin Random House. For more details check out the 15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy Book Page.

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  • Nancy

    12, June 2012 at 4:54 am

    I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed right now, not quite sure why; maybe after such a long time being out of touch with activity I now find myself with a bit too much, but I just need to prioritize and take some deep breaths and some quiet time for myself, maybe I just answered my own dilema!

  • Delilah

    18, May 2012 at 1:54 pm

    So here is a little saying I have about life.
    “Dont let life happen to you, but you need to happen to life!”
    The point is folks that life is filled with great things and not so great things. If you dont take an aggressive stance on life then you may see the not so great things happen to you. But if you do want the great things, then make it happen. IF you think your worth a great life than fight for a great life.
    I hate when people say “ohh she got lucky” The hell with the luck. The great things that have happened t me in my life are becasue I created those oppurtunities for myself. And the same goes for some of the bad oppurtunities.
    So wake up, fall in love with yourself, realize your with it, and happen to your life!!!

  • Fritz Madida

    18, May 2012 at 12:27 pm

    Choose my friends! The choice is YOURS!